i dunno. i guess i just like being in charge in bed. it’s not really something i think about.
yeah, i suppose. i mean, it’s not hard to let jim have all the control. it’s not really difficult. i’d say i enjoy it, yeah.
jim’s an exception. i wouldn’t do it for anyone else, i don’t think. it just doesn’t interest me. i’m jims and only his. i can’t imagine just bending over for anyone else.
i have a thing for librarians? and i dunno, i just get aggressive sometimes. i like having complete control.
not really, jim’s pretty aware of all of this.
as a lifestyle i think it’s a little bit of a strech, but in bed i’m fine with it. jim has a nice set of restraints and whenever those are absent there’s ties and belts and braces and hands.
He’s grown into it. Naturally he is very demanding in bed, but he does play it up in certain situations. He does love being in control though.
He really does. He won’t say so, but Jim just ordering him around in the sack is a huge turn on. He wouldn’t do this for anyone else, not to the extent that he allows Jim to control him, and it does wonders for his libido. He does enjoy it when Jim fucks him too, he’s never really thought ‘holy fuck, that’s never happening again’ although a few times he’s thought it much less satisfying than being on top.
He’s not really attracted to other men, not really, he’s definitely attracted to women and he can’t imagine being a sub for a woman. He’ll submit to one though, go down on her, take his time, do what she wants, but he’ll never let anyone have the control over him like Jim does.
He doesn’t really enjoy giving blowjobs at all, but he doesn’t mind it. Jim’s the only one he’s done it for and while it’s not completely disgusting for him he has to be in a certain mood.
I think bloodplay is the kinkiest thing he’s into. He will let Jim do anything to him - including carving his initials on his hip.
He’s not. He really has no shame anyway. It’s a victimless pleasure for him.
Sebastian likes bondage and a bit of the dom/sub play, but he can’t imagine being treated like a ‘slave’ or something like that. it wouldn’t work with his and JIm’s dynamic anyway. In bed is a different story, so I think that his BDSM kinks are relegated to the bedroom and the occasional suggestive text message.